RSL Kings operates under a "zero tolerance" policy.  All players are expected to follow the players Code of Conduct and at no time are they to engage in cyber bullying as Ambassadors of the program.

Bullying Tip Sheet for Students

Hockey Canada Cyberbullying

Bullying Definition
What is Cyberbullying?

Hockey Canada Bullying Definition

Bullying is defined by the combined use of aggression and power.  It occurs when one or more individuals abuse power and direct verbal, physical or social aggression at another individual.  Harm inflicted by bullying may be phsyical, psychological, social or educational.

Bullying includes a continuum of hurtful behaviours that can range in severity from name-calling to criminal assault.  Bullying among youth is addressed by education legislation in seven provinces and one territory.  Most commonly, the legislation pertains to any incident that affects the learning climate of a school, whether or not it took place on school property, face to face, or through cyberbullying.  

Bullying among adults is addressed through harassment and human rights legislation as well as criminal law.

There are many forms of bullying:

Physical bullying includes hitting, kicking, shoving, spitting, beating up, stealing or damaging property.

Verbal bullying includes name-calling mocking, hurtful teasing, humiliating or threatening someone, racist comments, or sexual harassment.

Social bullying includes rolling your eyes or turning away from someone, excluding others from the group, gossiping or spreading rumours, setting others up to look foolish or damaging friendships.

Racial bullying includes treating people badly because of their racial or ethnic background, saying bad things about a cultural background, calling someone racist names, or telling racist jokes.

Religious bullying includes treating people badly because of their religious backgrounds or beliefs, saying bad things about a religious background or belief, calling someone names, or telling jokes based on his or her religios beliefs.

Sexual bullying includes leaving someone out or treating them badly because they are a boy or a girl; making someone feel uncomfortable because of their gender or sexual orientation; making sexist comments or jokes; touching, pinching or grabbing someone in a sexual way; making crude comments about someones sexual behaviour; spreading a sexual rumour about someone; or calling someone gay, a fag, a lesbian, or similar narmes.

Disability bullying includes leaving someone out or treating them badly because of a disability making someone feel uncomfortable because of a disability, or making comments or jokes to hurt someone with a disability.

Cyberbullying includes the use of email, cell phones, text messages and internet sites to threaten, harass, embarrass, humiliate, socially exclude or damage anothers person's reputation and friendships.

The following is a non-exhaustive list of bullying behaviours that are used to intimidate, distress, or control others:

• Unwanted yelling and screaming
• Continually criticizing someone abilities
• Blaming and humiliating another person for mistakes
• Making unreasonable demands related to performance
• Repeated insults or put downs
• Repeated threats to remove or restrict opportunities or privileges
• Denying or discounting someone's accomplishment
• Threats of and actual phsyical violence

What is Cyberbullying?

Cyberbulling involves the use of information and communication technologies, including, but not limited to email, cell phone and text messages, camera phones, instant message, or defamatory personal websites, to support deliberate, repeated and hostile behaviour by an individual or group that is intentended to harm others.  It involves using technology to spread gossip, secrets or rumours about another person that will damage that person's reputation.

What common technology is used to cyberbully?

Email

• Sending nasty or threatning emails to a player, coach or parent
• Including the entire team in a message to someone that is insulting or nasty
• Sending out or posting unsuitable images or videos
• Breaking into an email account an sending hurtful materials to others under an assumed identity 
• Deliberately excluding others from email contact lists

Social Networks (Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.)

• Posting nasty comments or embarrassing or offensive photos of a teammate, coach or volunteer
• Hacking into someones account and sending unpleasant messages
• Rejecting or excluding teammates

Cell Phones/Smart Phones

• Nasty or threatning calls or texts between players, parents, coaches or officials
• Taking humiliating pictures or videos and sharing them with others.
• Starting rumours about another person through texting or phone calls
• Using apps inappropriately

Live Chats, Websites and Blogs

• Deliberately excluding others from instant messaging contact lists
• Sending or posting negative comments about a coach or player
• Having negative discussions about your team on a public forum
• Threatning others
• Creating blogs or websites that have stories, cartoons, pictures or jokes ridiculing others
• Creating polling websites where visitors are asked to rate individuals attributes in a negative manner
• Engaging someone in instant messaging, tricking them into revealing personal information and then forwarding that information to others
• Using someone else's password in order to change their profile to reflect sexual, racist, and other content that may offend others
• Posting false or hurtful messages on online bulletin boards or in chat rooms

Online Gaming Sites

• Name-calling or other players involved
• Sending nasty messages while the game is being played
• Picking on weaker players during the game

Cyberbullying can make you feel sad, afraid, or like there's nothing you can do.  But there ar always things you can do to help make things better, even if its only a little bit at a time.

Remember - being bullied is never okay, and you shouldn't have to put up with it.  You have a right to be yourself without being bullied.